What a beautiful post. I'm sure I am not the only member who related to many parts of it. Like you, I am not a fan of the sex shows but truly enjoy the Cabaret shows (which so many of our members seems to hate). I am also usually mesmerized by the male dancers at these cabaret shows: so much so that one of them became my bf! And like your bf, my favorite shopping trips are always the ones to Big C or Lotus to stock up supplies for the condo (my bf would vote for the Emporium).
Thank you for taking the time to post this.
Pete