How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Gone Fishing » Sat 27 Jun, 2009 9:42 am

francois wrote:Regardless, a drunk is a drunk, and a sucker punch/kick is a sucker punch/kick. The response was far in excess of the transgression. The kick or punch could have killed the farang. Now, if it was a farang doing same same to a Thai, what do you think the outcome? Ask the police.


I don't know if I would call it a "sucker punch" - he had just asked "who wants it"!!


the plonker wrote:I believe that people just become more of what they really are when they are intoxicated. I just get giggly and talk too much for my own good (you really *shouldn't* spill your guts to most people).


Aah ..... now I understand why you post as you do.
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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: scottish-guy » Sat 27 Jun, 2009 11:26 am

soi hok gao wrote:
scottish-guy wrote:
As for the incident itself: just a normal night-out in Glasgow


And an Englishman in a Glaswegian bar drunk and mouthing off to a Scot would get a kiss on both cheeks and a free round of drinks, right?


I think you have missed the point entirely haven't you? Or perhaps you're one of those humourless Canadians I mentioned earlier - talking of which.............

Smiles wrote:
scottish-guy wrote:" ... As for the incident itself: just a normal night-out in Glasgow ... "

Exactly.


Perhaps Smiles can reveal how many nights out in Glasgow he has experienced - I mean surely he's not just talking out his arse? Heaven forbid!

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: scottish-guy » Sat 27 Jun, 2009 11:32 am

Smiles wrote:
dave_syd wrote:" ... most of the criminals who were deported had committed crimes such as perjury, fraud, forgery, sacrilege, highway robbery, theft, burglary ... "

Buggery too. A lot of buggery.


.......... which continued on the boat no doubt.

And all those tales of the ship's crew drinking piss - surely that's not too far removed from what people today call golden showers?

The late George Melly, summed up the nautical life in 4 words "Rum, Bum, and Concertina"

Hello Sailor!

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: francois » Sat 27 Jun, 2009 11:47 am

Gone Fishing wrote:
I don't know if I would call it a "sucker punch" - he had just asked "who wants it"!!
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Mon Dieu! I thought a "sucker punch" was some sorte of alcoholic beverage with a kick to it! Everytime I ask for one I awake with a terrible headache.
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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Gone Fishing » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 5:19 am

mlomker wrote: Read one book about Thailand and you'd understand how completely inappropriate even losing your temper, much less being physically aggressive is. If this had occurred in a US bar I wouldn't feel sorry for him but the fact that he got that aggressive in Thailand (with a Thai), is what totally pushes it over the edge for me.


I wonder if you read the book which tells you that Thailand has the highest incidence of shootings and gun-related crime in the world (except, possibly, Columbia)?

Or the one about Thailand consistently having one of the top 10 total prison populations, despite its relatively small population, with most of the offenders being imprisoned for violent, drug-related or gun-related offences (or a combination of them)?
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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Nalong » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 7:12 am

Let's not talk about the number of Thai business and political disputes that are resolved via drive-by assassination attempts.

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Beachlover » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 8:03 am

Gone Fishing wrote:
mlomker wrote: Read one book about Thailand and you'd understand how completely inappropriate even losing your temper, much less being physically aggressive is. If this had occurred in a US bar I wouldn't feel sorry for him but the fact that he got that aggressive in Thailand (with a Thai), is what totally pushes it over the edge for me.


I wonder if you read the book which tells you that Thailand has the highest incidence of shootings and gun-related crime in the world (except, possibly, Columbia)?

Or the one about Thailand consistently having one of the top 10 total prison populations, despite its relatively small population, with most of the offenders being imprisoned for violent, drug-related or gun-related offences (or a combination of them)?


Thais are good at keeping their cool and smiling. But when they snap, they can really lose their temper and be quite illogical in their actions. It's kind of a double edged sword.

Thailand also has the highest number of penis amputations (angry wives) lol. That's a disturbing reason to be gay in Thailand.
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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: i_am_me » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 6:48 pm

I can't agree with many posters in this thread. All the guy did was hit the bar. He never struck anybody. If you agree with Dubya about striking first then this is suitable. He was trying to buy a drink when he was clearly over the limit. The Thais were about to provide it if he had just shut up.

Clearly he had enough and didn't need anymore. so they serve him until he is a mess and then kick his face in afterwards. I am not condoning his behavior for one moment but the bar staff appears to be scum to me. What bar in the west serves their customers and then after they are drink beats them until they pass out and moves them bfore the cops come?

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Beach Bunny » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 7:19 pm

Nalong wrote:Let's not talk about the number of Thai business and political disputes that are resolved via drive-by assassination attempts.


Let's do. Do you have a statistic?
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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Nalong » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 7:29 pm

Beach Bunny wrote:
Nalong wrote:Let's not talk about the number of Thai business and political disputes that are resolved via drive-by assassination attempts.


Let's do. Do you have a statistic?
Sadly you seem to have escaped. Maybe that's a reflection of your actual vs. your claimed success.

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Beach Bunny » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 7:31 pm

As thought: you have no statistics, do you?
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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Nalong » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 9:03 pm

It's a topic widely discussed. I believe I first read about it in Culture Shock: Thailand. A simple Google search http://tinyurl.com/mpvzuo will turn up over 20 pages of results for assassinations and attempted assassinations over the years, as well as studies such as this one http://www.article2.org/mainfile.php/0402/188/

Maybe those rose-colored spectacles you affect should be taken off?

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Beach Bunny » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 9:06 pm

Ah, you're talking about vice and semi-legal businesses. Mafiosi knocking off mafiosi. It is not so common in legitimate business.
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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: Nalong » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 9:37 pm

Beach Bunny wrote:Ah, you're talking about vice and semi-legal businesses. Mafiosi knocking off mafiosi. It is not so common in legitimate business.
You claim to have been involved in a legitimate business? But you're such a total asshole!

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Re: How not to behave in a Thai Bar...

PostAuthor: kenc » Sun 28 Jun, 2009 9:47 pm

Gone Fishing wrote:Kenc, she told them "enough, enough .....no more kicking .....take him out"
A similar reaction to most bar owners anywhere, I would guess, particularly after his threat (the opening words on the recording) "I'll fucking have this place turned over tomorrow" and his open invitation "who wants it?". Would a Thai have got better treatment, under similar circumstances, in Britain, Australia, or anywhere else? Somehow I doubt it, nor would they deserve it....

Well thanks Mr Fish. I was wondering what the Thai attitude was to all the mayhem. Notice that the other Thais don't get involved until Mr. Jerk starts getting physical and banging his fist on the bar.
Like I said, I've been on the recieving end of such tirades and its all you can do to keep from blowing the jerk's head off (if you had a gun). You know you can't react but your blood just boils.

But yeah, the guy was sucker punched, from the side by a kid who couldn't keep his cool.
So give the kid a medal! :cheers:

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